I’m confident you will have heard about I.Q. Â measuring your intellectual abilities and E.Q. your emotional thermometer, which has been introduced by Daniel Goleman which may give you an indication of your interpersonal skills . But what about your F.Q?
It is of course helpful and wonderful if you are helped by your intelligence and if you’re in tune with others due to your social or emotional awareness and there seems to be another factor which plays a significant part.
It can be summed up as F.Q.  Faith and how much faith you feel you have.  Faith can be helpful to you in a number of ways. Having faith can help you to feel optimistic about your future plans, your relationships and  your personal growth.  Just imagine having faith in love, how would that be helpful?  Having faith in love offers you the opportunity to shift your focus from ‘keeping your relationships safe’ so to speak to feeling safe in your relationship, whether it be with a partner or a friend and that will allow you to focus more on what is going on in the present moment. You will have more energy to focus on making your partner or friend feel happy and appreciated and to really enjoy his or her company. This will naturally make them treat you in a more kind, appreciative way too.
Even though Faith sounds wonderful sometimes you may or may not at times feel a little sceptical about having faith. Sometimes break-ups or other situations may lead you to feel it would be a better idea to have a little less faith. We see this in giving up on romance after a nasty break up.
Having faith however will help you to deal with these tough situations  because having faith will mean that you’re more open and aware of opportunities that come your way which can help you to improve your situation. By having faith others will also probably feel more inclined to help you. It may be easier to help someone who is willing to grow and change.
If you feel you want to improve your level of faith how can you go about it? Having faith is not an ‘all or nothing at all’ deal so you can start anywhere you like and practice having faith in situations so that your level of having faith can improve to the level you’re comfortable with.